"Are there any circumstances, do you feel, where one can be a good Christian and yet not forgive?" —Queen Elizabeth II to Billy Graham, The Crown
A recent article about mental wellness advocated several appealing strategies for letting go of past hurts and creating healthier relationships: look for the positive in the situation, cultivate empathy for the other side and just move on.
It sounds very nice, but how many people are actually able to do this?
The real heart of the problem is that God was nowhere in this polite mix of pop-psychology and secular counciling.